Something Changes When Your Work Stops Depending on Immediate Recognition At the beginning of this journey, most coaches don’t realize what’s actually happening. A client questions the depth.They resist.They stay at the surface.They don’t fully receive what you’re trying to show them. And something reacts internally. At first, it feels personal. Not because you consciously […]
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Deep Listening for Coaches is the Difference Between Managing Yourself and Expressing Yourself Most coaches try to manage what comes up internally. Especially after a difficult interaction with a client. The instinct is understandable. You want to:move forwardstay groundedregain claritykeep leading well So attention immediately shifts toward resolving the reaction. But something changes when you
There Was a Powerful Moment When I Felt Insignificant as a Coach There was a moment where this became undeniable for me–when I felt insignificant as a coach. A client emailed me: “You’re not a good coach. I didn’t learn anything from you.” The words didn’t just land. They stung. Not because of what was
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Feeling of Insignificance After a Coaching Session Doesn’t Go Away The feeling of insignificance after a coaching session doesn’t fade once the call ends. Something lingers. You feel it in your body.Notice it in your awareness.Your attention keeps returning to the same place. What You Start Doing With the Feeling of Insignificance After a Coaching
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The session ends… and the feeling of insignificance stays with you long after the coaching session ends. It shows up—not just in your thoughts— in your body.through your awareness.and in the way your attention keeps returning to the same place. You’re Still Thinking About the Client Even after the session—you’re still with them. Not the
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When Your Work Doesn’t Land in Coaching: The Moment You Feel It You can feel the exact moment it happens. A client doesn’t fully meet the depth of what you’re showing them. Questions begin to surface.The depth gets simplified.Their response comes from a more surface level than what you know is actually happening. You can
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The Moment Most Misread Client Resistance in Spiritual Coaching There comes a moment in every spiritual coach’s work that changes everything—and most don’t recognize it when it happens. A client begins to resist. Not in an obvious way.Not in a way you can easily name.Just enough to shift the dynamic. Suddenly, hesitation appears.Questions start to
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