Are you ready to Stand Out and Shine?
Yet you feel stuck where don’t want to be... causing you to get angry and lose it? While your emotional re-actions just seem to pop-up out of nowhere leaving you wondering what the heck just happened? And, you sometimes feel like a ***hot mess*** shattered into pieces?
Whatever emotions are surfacing for you… when they pop-up out of nowhere and feel overwhelming to you, you can know that it is your Inner Child that has been holding onto deep, buried emotions that are surfacing to be healed!
In fact, Inner Child (IC) Healing is “the golden key” to your taking center stage and stepping into the limelight! It is the missing magical ingredient that allows you to align with your Higher Self and fulfill your divine destiny!
How do you know that you have a Divine Destiny to fulfill?
If what you have been doing has been leaving you feeling less than purposeful, powerful, and fully present… AND you are having these intense emotional experiences… then you can know that something MUCH BIGGER has been trying to manifest for you!
Most often, those of us ready to step into our Divine Destinies intuitively know that the emotional struggles we are having are pointing us inward… to see, hear, and understand the divine gifts that you alone can offer the world!
You just didn’t know that those emotional experiences were trying to show how to Stand Out and Shine and Fulfill Your Divine Destiny until now!
While alignment with God/Universe/Source is where you find your Divine Destiny, the road to being aligned is quite another thing. Awakening and Ascension is a process of inner healing and inner healing is the domain of the Inner Child.
Most of us get lost and feel unseen, unheard, and misunderstood because we weren’t taught to love and honor our emotions… instead, we learned to ignore, bury, and hide how we really feel.
But it’s SO much more than that… those negative emotions are actually connected to a part of yourself that you rejected and abandoned without even knowing it!
The Inner Child holds all of the places you rejected and abandoned yourself AND your Divine Gifts…
We reject and abandon ourselves for many reasons. Yes, sometimes because Mom, Dad, brother, sister, and friends didn’t get you. (And, they may never see who you are…)
Yet, the truth is that they don’t need to… You only need to see, hear, and understand you so that your Soul tribe will see YOU… No one else can do this for you!
But because you have rejected and abandoned your Inner Child and the gifts they hold for you so many times in your life–over decades since birth– your Inner Child doesn’t feel safe and, in some instances, is downright terrified to be seen!
Imagine you have an animal that has been caged its entire life with little human interaction. How do you think that animal would respond if you try to take it out of it’s cage?
For much of humanity, this is exactly what has happened to aspects of the Inner Child.
And, that’s why you get angry and lose it!
It has very little to do with the person or circumstances you find yourself in.
It’s that sad, angry, and/or terrified Inner Child seeking YOUR love and acknowledgment. The part of you that has been rejected and abandoned for oh so long.
Now, you might be thinking… But, Crystal, they did this or they did that… They hurt me and that’s what is causing my pain!
Don’t try and change how you feel about what happened to you right out of the gates! Here is where you start honoring how you really feel and don’t judge it. Just FEEL it… and trust the process.
I call this session, “Clear the Hidden Mirror with Inner Child Healing”, because there is a subconscious connection that you can’t see until you do the healing work! Our external circumstances are the “Hidden Mirror” that connects us to our deepest wounds and, ultimately, our divine destinies!
For example, in my own life, the painful experience that kept popping up for me was that my Dad never said he loved me. Whenever I put myself out there to market or network my business and experienced crickets or silence, it always triggered the feelings of unworthy and unlovable. And, I would end up balling my eyes out and feeling that nothing I could do would ever change my results… that people would never really value me and my work–no matter how much I did for them.
The wound was deep for sure. So when we have these deeply painful experiences, it is best to just focus on one step at a time and trust the process.
In my example, I did just that and I was able to get to the root of it and heal it once and for all! An important part of my healing was the realization that even if Dad could never say he loved me that I could learn to love me… and that was what I really needed! That’s why Inner child healing work is so powerful! I turned the Hidden Mirror that said “Dad didn’t love me so I’m unworthy and unlovable.” into “I love me and I am worthy and lovable.”
Feeling worthy and lovable is about giving love to the specific aspect of your Inner Child who is holding a powerful divine gift for you!
So I believe that anyone can heal the deepest of wounds with time and patience. And, I believe you will find that your deepest wounds are an important part of your Divine Destiny!
Isn’t it time to heal and transform your Inner child’s pain and activate your divine gifts of purpose, power, and presence? When you do, everything you want can easily manifest into your business and life experience–including your divine destiny!
If you are undecided, schedule your complimentary 15 minute session with Crystal to learn more.
With this session, Crystal will guide you through the Inner Child Healing process, including:
- Holding the space for where you are triggered emotionally to allow your deepest, blocked emotions to flow. This is important because the hardest thing to do is to feel those emotions that you’ve buried deeply within you. Some will need much support in getting the Inner Child to open up to how they really feel–which is true of the darkest emotions like anger, rage, and feeling terrified of change.
- Support you in being the Neutral Observer of Your Emotions. Most buried feelings are overwhelming at first so it’s very difficult in the beginning to both feel your emotions and observe what the Inner Child is trying to share with you. Over time, as you process the deeper emotions, it becomes more and more natural to observe your Inner Child and the gifts that they have been holding for you!
- Focus on the Part of the Body that Feels the Emotion. Similarly to being neutral observer, you will need to specifically target the exact place in your body where you feel the most pain. In early healing work, we tend to jump deeply into the abyss and lose the connection with our bodies… and when we do, we get lost in the emotion and lose contact with the Inner Child.
- Help the Inner Child to Feel Safe to Feel the Emotions that Have Been Stored in the Body. Depending upon what’s observed and where you feel it in your body, a powerful SuperConscious Awakening Coach will tune into exactly what your Inner child needs to feel safe. It’s important to not skip this step and to take it slowly. It’s like having antenna on top of your head… take it one step at a time.
- Be as still as possible to give space to the Inner Child to feel, however, she/he feels. Some emotions feel wrong in the beginning so the normal response is to try and change them too quickly. This dishonors and disrespects the Inner child and the reason they feel how they really feel. It takes you back to step 4 and makes the Inner Child recoil back in her/his shell. Again, this takes time to learn to be still as you cultivate a deeper relationship with the part of yourself that you may have felt hard to love (up until now!)
- Notice the unwind. As the Inner Child processes how they really feel, the flow of emotions creates an “unwind.” The unwind is where limiting beliefs that have kept you stuck begin to fall away. The Inner Child is in control of all of this! Steps 1 – 5 are you creating the space for your Inner Child to finally trust you–usually for the first time in your life.
- Once you feel the unwind, ask the Inner Child, “What do you need from me most right now? With a stronger bond with your Inner Child, you can now receive your next step from her/him. It can be anything from “peace” to “fun”. It’s most important to listen and honor what they most need from you with your thoughts, words, and actions.
- Ground the new feeling in the body. If your Inner Child needs “fun”, focus back on the part of your body that felt the pain in step 3. Now, focus on what “Fun” feels like in your body. Really ground it in your body and make a list of the actions you can take to honor your Inner Child with the “Fun” they need!
- Discover the authentic self via Human Design/Astrology/ Numerology. Crystal will have your Human Design available during the call and will guide you to the specific aspect of your Inner Child that is needing your love and acknowledgement. This is a vital step as it connects your pain to the activation of your divine gifts and, ultimately, your divine destiny!
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If you are undecided, schedule your complimentary 15 minute session with Crystal to learn more.
